Amanda Devine
How Do I Change My Thinking?
August 3, 2008 on 3:02 am | In Our Thinking | 2 CommentsYou set your goals and now you realize that in order to achieve them you need to change your thinking. How do you do that?
Who is the person we talk to all day long? It is us. We talk to ourselves all the time. What is that you tell yourself? Do you tell yourself, that you can not achieve your goal, that you set it too high and it is unrealistic? Do you get mad at yourself when you make a mistake, or lost an opportunity, or simply that you are not smart enough to achieve what you want? Do you tell yourself, that you are too fat, too ugly, too….etc, etc.? If this is what you are telling yourself everyday, THAT IS WHO YOU ARE!
The point here is that all of the above are LIES! You are lying to yourself. The truth is you are amazing, brilliant, intelligent, handsome, pretty, special and unique. You are capable of achieving anything in life, but for you in order to achieve it you need to see yourself for what you really are, the amazing human being!
First thing you need to tell yourself the truth. You need to get up every morning and tell yourself while you looking at your reflection in the mirror how special you are. Tell yourself how smart, how brilliant, how handsome, beautiful and amazing….person you are. Talk to yourself like that all day, build yourself up instead of putting yourself down. See the beauty and brilliance in you. And pat yourself on the back every time you do a great job. Remember what people see in you and what they think about you is the reflection of what you are talking to yourself about all day long. So, the next time you want to make a comment about yourself to yourself, think what it is that you want others to think about you.
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Amanda Devine
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Your present situation in your life is a mirror reflection of your thinking.
Your Powerful Inner Self
P.S.
If you want to change the reflection in the mirror, you need to change what it is that you think about. This is the only way.
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Thoughts and Actions
July 26, 2008 on 2:59 am | In Our Thinking | 2 CommentsThoughts and Actions.
Have you ever heard about the definition of insanity? Most of the sales people have.
The definition of insanity, is doing the same things over and over again and expecting different results. How it is really explained to us, and how it was explained to me; that if we take the same actions and we expect different results, that is the definition of insanity. We know that there is truth to it but it really goes much, much deeper than that. If you change actions, for example you make more sales appointments you will get more sales and better results this way. Yes, you will change your results, but only a little. You will never achieve your dream by doing that. The real meaning of the definition of insanity is thinking the same way and expecting different results. It is never going to happen!!! Our actions are results of what we think and they produce results. So if we are thinking the same way, we will act the same way and we will have the same results we always had. Only when we change our thinking, we will change our results. When you think in a different way, you will act in a different way and you will achieve your dream. Where you are at this moment is the result of what you have been thinking till now. And that is great news, because they are your thoughts and you can change them any time!
Always remember, you have absolute power to transform your life. What you need to do is to transform your thinking.
Amanda Devine
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Do you know that you have the same potential as Thomas Edison, Henry Ford and Albert Einstein?
Your Powerful Inner Self
P.S.
Do you know what is the difference between you and them?
They knew that they had the potential, you don’t know it YET.
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You Set Your Goal. Now What?
July 20, 2008 on 10:06 pm | In Goals | 2 CommentsOn a very special day, you set down and you wrote your goals. You wrote on a piece of paper or on your computer what it is that you really want. You wrote about you dreams. You probably looked at them and wondered, and now what? What am I going to do to achieve them?
You don’t have to know how to achieve it. You have to believe that you are going to achieve this goal. Believing in achieving your goal is not enough. The right thinking and the best positive thinking you can imagine is not enough to achieve your goal. You have to act on the idea. You have to make a plan of action.
How do you start?
You start by taking another piece of paper or just sit at your computer and start writing. You need to write what is the best you can do, with what you have, from where you are. Write everything that comes to your mind. Keep writing until you run out of ideas. Then stop. Look at what you wrote and answer a question for yourself. “Is this the best I can do?” Then write some more ideas. Then ask the same question again. When nothing comes to your mind, start acting on your ideas. Never stop! Ad new ideas and keep the ball rolling until it hits the goal.
Amanda Devine
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Short on money – temporary
Debts – temporary
Out of work - temporary
Poor relationships – temporary
Feeling beaten – permanent (only if you let it be)
Your Powerful Inner Self
P.S.
Nothing bad in your life is permanent. It will only become that way when you believe it is.
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How To Convince Someone That You Are Special?
July 13, 2008 on 11:50 pm | In Our Thinking | 1 CommentAfter one of my seminars I was asked a great question;
“How can I convince the judges that I am the winner of the competition?”
This is what I answered:
You can not convince the judges that you are the winner. The only person you need to convince is yourself. If you feel and believe in the depth of your heart that you are the winner, then you are. You don’t have to convince anyone. When you believe that you are the winner, you think like a winner, you act as a winner, you talk as a winner. Your entire demeanor says loud and clearly; I am a winner and it shows to everyone that is around you, including judges.
That applies to all areas of your life. Before you want to convince someone that you are the best for that job, the best choice for a partner, the best business person in your category, the best parent, the best student, friend…etc.; first you have to convince yourself that you are that person. When you are that person, you don’t need to convince anyone. They will know it.
You are a very special person. All you need to do is to see that for yourself….deep in your heart…than everyone will notice it as well.
Amanda Devine
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“Behold the turtle: He only makes progress when he sticks his neck out.”
James Bryant Conant, 1893-1978, Educator and Diplomat
Your Powerful Inner Self
P.S.
Do you know the saying, “Better safe than sorry”? If you are always safe you are going to be sorry.
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Who Is In The Driver’s Seat of Your Life?
July 6, 2008 on 1:30 am | In Our Thinking | No CommentsThere are many differences between successful people and unsuccessful people. One thing I wanted to concentrate on today is that successful people are in the driver’s seat of their life. They are the ones that make the decisions where to go and how to go about it. They are the ones who are in charge of their fate. They make their fate.
On the other hand the unsuccessful people are in the passenger’s seat. They are ones who feel that everyone is pulling their strings. They feel like they are the little people in the big world and they have no control over anything, or hardly anything. They often feel helpless, underpaid and not appreciated. If it happens that you are that person, think about this. Who is your driver and where are you going? What will happen when your driver decides to drive off the cliff? If this was the case, remember you are in the passenger’s seat and you are going with him or her!
You are such a powerful being. You have such incredible potential. You and only YOU should be in the driver’s seat of your life. All you need to do, is to take that seat, and claim it as YOURS for the rest of your life!
Amanda Devine
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Do you know that 20% of people earn 80% of all the money?
This means that the 80% of people have to split the remaining 20% of the money.
Your Powerful Inner Self
P.S.
I don’t think we should have to split that 20%. I don’t like that idea at all. Let’s sink our teeth in the 80%. Let’s go for the big piece of the pie!
And who was the one that said that size does not matter?
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Celebration of Life!
June 28, 2008 on 9:58 pm | In Goals | 1 CommentI had a fantastic comment to one of my blogs. Thank you!
“Words of wisdom, why dream at all if you don’t dream big, why settle for less when you know that you always, can make more of yourself. You could not have put it better, life is too short to dream small, and they say death takes you to a better place however why would it???”
One preacher said that at a funeral the saddest thing is not a death of the body, but a death of the dreams. It is the passion you have not followed; it is the car or house you have not bought; it is the vacations you have not taken. How true! We go through life compromising, wishing for better things, waiting for the opportunity that might never come or even when it finally comes we are too scared to jump into it, just in case… we might fail. We prefer to be safe and keep wishing. You know the saying, “Better safe than sorry.” If you are always safe and you don’t take any intelligent risk, we are going to be sorry. I wanted to emphasize, the “Intelligent risk”, not just any risk. You see, you can not achieve anything worth while without an intelligent risk. What we do with our lives is; we tiptoe through it hoping we will get safely to death. Is it an intelligent game? You answer it for yourself.
Instead of wishing all your life, dream big like the person in the comments said. Don’t wait for death to take you to a better place, if there is one. Make this life a better place for yourself and for your loved ones. Look for opportunities! Or if you can’t find them, create them! You are the creator of your life. When you have the opportunity, dive into it! Enjoy the thrill and explore the deep waters, swim with the current and come to the surface as a winner! I can not agree more with the comment. Life is too short to dream small, too short to let it pass you by so you can regret all the things you have not done when you were younger. Do them now, and live your life to the fullest! You deserve it!
Remember though, dreaming is not enough, you have to work at it!
To celebrate my full recovery I decided to give everyone who is ready for that magnificent adventure of our mind, first session of my Devine Awakening program completely FREE.
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Amanda Devine
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“All adverse and depressing influences can be overcome, not by fighting, but by rising above them.”
Charles Caleb Colton, 1780-1832 Clergyman
Your Powerful Inner Self
P.S.
A person of understanding will not get angry, upset or frustrated with a situation. He/she in a calm manner will look for a way out. There is always a light at the end of a tunnel.
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Celebration!
June 22, 2008 on 4:30 am | In Uncategorized, Amazing Stories | 1 CommentI wrote the last month how I healed myself from an incurable disease of my nervous system. No matter if we are talking about sickness or if we are talking about relationships, money, friendships, the applied principles are exactly the same. You can too, heal your life, make it better, make it the way you want. I changed my life in spite of the odds, you can change yours too. It takes courage and determination, the will to follow the proven path, the effort. But is it worth it? You bet it is! As I say to everyone I am a new woman with a new life. You too can be a new person with a new life. You have unlimited potential. The only thing you have to do is to see that you have that potential. Sometimes it is hard to see ourselves through all the conditioning we have received through our life for what we really are. You are like that magnificent diamond buried under a pile of mud that was thrown on you by conditioning. When you start wiping that mud away you will notice the first brilliant sparkle of your potential the feeling is overwhelming! When you see for the first time how powerful you are, when you discover who you really are, you will be speechless for a while in awe of that discovery.
I was thinking how I can celebrate my full recovery and I decided to give everyone who is ready for that magnificent adventure of our mind, first session of my Devine Awakening program completely FREE.
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Amanda Devine
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When you speak of someone, speak of them as if they are in the room with you.
Your Powerful Inner Self
P.S.
In one office there was a sign, “Be positive or be silent.” Good advice.
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How To Get a Job
June 14, 2008 on 6:07 am | In Attitude | 2 CommentsDuring the great depression when there were millions of people without work, there was a man who got any job he wanted. How did he do that?
First in his mind there was no great depression. But he understood the fact that everyone felt a different way, so he decided to approach things from a different angle than anyone else. If you want to be very successful, you need to be creative. He sat down and he decided where is the place that he would like to work, what kind of job he would like to have. Then, he looked at the employment in a completely different way than the rest of the people. Everyone, he met was complaining that no one wanted to give them a job. They wanted to get a job so badly, but no one was offering them one. On every interview they said, that they would do anything if they got the job. They were focused on getting not giving. Our hero, thought what it is that he could give to his new employer. He realized that the employers were as worried as the people who did not have jobs. Many businesses were closing and they hoped that the new employee could bring something new to their business to turn it around. So, the man studied about the profession he wanted the job in. He learned from libraries, from other businesses that were in that market how their business works and he thought about ideas on how to help the employer who was going to give him the job in his company. Then, he saw himself being the perfect person for the position he wanted. When he went on the interview, with all that he had learned, he was perceived as very knowledgeable about the position and he ended his interview in those words, “And I have a few ideas that can increase the profit in your business and I would like to discuss them with you.” Do you think he got the job? You bet! Every single time.
Who said that? “Don’t ask what your country can do for you, but what it is that you can do for your country.” Yes, it was past American President John Kennedy. Instead of asking what I can get, concentrate on what you can give and see what will happen.
Amanda Devine
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Successful people make decisions quickly and they rarely change them.
Your Powerful Inner Self
P.S.
Don’t ever play the game: “Do it, don’t do it; go, don’t go; say don’t say.” Make a decision and move on. This also applies to; “Eat, don’t eat.” You know you want that chocolate cake, so make the decision and eat on.
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Dare to Dream
June 8, 2008 on 5:18 am | In Goals | 1 CommentMany people go through life never dreaming. They might have wishes, but that is all they are, wishes. 87% of people have no goals. You can not blame them for that, as we were never taught how to set goals and go for our dreams. Why many people don’t dream? Sometimes the “reality” is too gloomy and it is, so hard to break away. It is like everything around tells those people that it is impossible, that it is good for someone else, but not for them. I have news for you. If it is good for someone else it is good for you! You and the other person, you might compare yourself to, have exactly the same potential. The difference between you and the other person is that he/she dares to dream. It takes courage to dream. It takes even more courage to go for that dream, to make it happen. But if you never dream and never see your life in a different way, you will never change it. First you have to see beyond what you have. You have to see the possibilities of a different life. Then you have to formulate a plan to go for your new life that you imagined. You need to do the best you can, with what you have, from where you are. No matter where you are you can always make it better. All you have to do is dare to dream. No matter what your friends, you family will tell you, how impossible it might seem, just dare to dream and go for it!
I did! And I won my new life! ( Read my last 3 blogs to learn how I changed my life)
Amanda Devine
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“Baseball is 90 percent mental. The other half is physical.”
Yogi Berra, Great American Baseball Player
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P.S.
He is very right about it. It pertains to everything you do. 90% of everything you do is mental. The only thing he is not right about is his mathematics.
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A New Woman With A New Life
June 1, 2008 on 10:38 pm | In Amazing Stories | 1 CommentTwo weeks ago I wrote my story of how I cured myself from an incurable disease of my nervous system. I want to write an update on my progress. I keep getting more and more energetic every single day. Yesterday, something amazing happened. My husband and I went dancing. Yes, I danced yesterday! Having an incurable disease of my nervous system for 6 years and walking with a cane for the last 3 years, I danced yesterday. It was a very special day. For the first time in 6 years I danced with my husband again. And the first time in 24 years I could really enjoy my meal, as I could eat whatever I wanted as I also cured my severe food allergies. I felt like a new person. I felt beautiful, special and free. I have never felt like that before. I had tears in my eyes when I sat down and thought about what had just happened. I would never, in a million years thought that was possible for me to do it. I was dragging my leg last year. I could hardly walk, yet at that very low moment in my life I made a decision to go for the “unrealistic” goal and heal myself. It felt like I was reaching for the moon or a star that was high in the sky. Every single person would’ve told me that I was aiming for the unreachable. Yet, I focused on my goal and believed I could have it, in spite of the terrible physical state I was in. That goal kept me sane. I had a purpose. I believed in it in spite of nothing happening for a long time. And finally, the magic unfolded and yesterday I was on my moon dancing to the stars. My friends can hardly believe in what happened and they are all very happy for me. But you see, the person who really had to believe in reaching my goal - was me.
The things you want in your life, whatever it is that you want, you have to convince yourself first that you can have them. Then, and only then, you too can dance on the moon with stars applauding your success. And all people will call it a “miracle”.
Amanda Devine
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It is not the knowledge of life that gives you power, it is the understanding of that knowledge and its application that does.
Your Powerful Inner Self
P.S.
If only ignorance could be painful.
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