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Importance of Unimportant Things

amanda — Fri, 20 Jan 2012 18:57:37 +0000

How many times when we are doing or worrying about the little things that make us miserable, while losing sight of what it is that really matters?

Sometimes we get irritated about the little things that are not going our way, like our partner put something in the closet and it is not very neat, or put dishes in the sink instead of dishwasher, etc. We get agitated and upset about it, forgetting that the most important thing is the person, and the relationship. When we start focusing on what it is that we like about our partner, friend, a child, etc. something interesting is going to happen. The irritating habits of those people are going to disappear and suddenly we see the things that are put neatly back in the closet, the dishes are in the dishwasher and everything is going our way.

Why does that happen? Because, we are concentrating on the important things, like love, instead of clothes and dishes.

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The Dawn

amanda — Sat, 07 Jan 2012 16:28:05 +0000

One sunny morning, when the sun was just raising up to the heights of the blue sky, Maria woke up with a very unusual feeling in her heart. She felt so incredibly good. She stopped and thought for a moment, wondering why she had this amazing feeling of wellbeing. She pondered over that for a moment and then she decided that after all, it was not important why she felt so good and she might as well enjoy that wonderful feeling. As the day went by, she discovered that everything was going her way. People called to enquire about her services and that money was coming like never before. When she finished her day at work, she came home to a very happy partner that was so happy to see her and that they spend a romantic evening together. The time came for Maria to go to bed. As she lay covered by the soft comforter, feeling warm and relaxed, she could not stop thinking about the incredible day that she had just experienced. She felt overwhelmed with gratitude. It was the best day of her life. All she could think about was how to have that day repeated. How could she have every day like that? Was it possible to have every day the same? What was different this day that made it so special? In her mind she went over and over her day. Then suddenly a thought came to her mind and she knew. She knew the answer!!! She knew what was different she did that morning. She said that she loved herself and she really felt love. She was thrilled by her discovery! Could that be so simple? Could just a simple act of feeling love for herself made that day so magical? And then she realized something huge, if she feels like that every day, she will experience that feeling every day. She got really excited about it. All she needed to do is to feel love for herself in order to create one amazing day after another. She closed her eyes and peace entered her heart like never before. She realized that this amazing day was just the dawn of her new life, a life that she always dreamed about.

That story is a description of many lives that my clients and I have experienced. It can be yours as well, when you truly love yourself.

I wonder, if you know why that simple act of loving ourselves can make such a huge difference in our lives.

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New Year’s 2012 Resolution?

amanda — Thu, 29 Dec 2011 11:22:07 +0000

Another new year and now what? Repeating the same things? Making the same resolutions that might disappear in few days, weeks… Why does that happen to us over and over again? We start with great intentions. What happens when the resolutions don’t take place?

I am sure you have heard the definition of insanity. “Doing the same things over and over again and expecting different results.” If we really want something different this year, we need to look closer at that definition. The truth is that we are doing the same things, because we are thinking the same way and that thinking brings us to the same results. When we change how we think, our actions will become different and the results will be different than ever before.

So, let’s make this 2012 the most incredible year in our lives!!!!

How do we go about it?

We need to learn more about the incredible power that we have. When we understand how powerful we are we will realize that the special job, income, relationship, health is possible. When we become conscious that anything we want we can have, we are going to stick to our direction no matter what. As we stay with it we are going to achieve the desired results.

It looks like hard work. If this feels like hard work for us, we are going about in the wrong way. When we think it is hard we will create it hard and we are going to give up. When you have fun with it, when you look at it as an adventure you are going to get there faster and you are going to have so much fun on the way.

So, don’t look at the New Year’s Resolution, look at the New Year’s Fun! What fun I am going to have this year? Change your thinking from seriousness to fun and go for it!!!

Have the best year of your life!!!

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Creating Things That We Desire – Part 2

amanda — Fri, 16 Dec 2011 11:42:15 +0000

It might seem like it. It might seem like we cannot become calm, because we are stressed about our financial situation and because we are worrying about it, we create more of the unwanted. A vicious circle? It is only because we do not know how to approach the issue.

I went to a store today, to get some things for Christmas. The nice soft happy Christmas song was filling the entire shop. That happy, uplifting music was affecting everyone in a positive way. The shop attendants were happy and the people pushing the carriages had smiles on their faces. Everyone was in that “Christmas mindset”. I watched a cute movie, “Elf”. If you have not seen it I recommend it. It is a children’s movie, but it is a great lesson for us as adults. One of the things that they were teaching elfs in their school was to treat every day like it is Christmas.

What is it so amazing about this time of the year? It is the atmosphere! That anticipation of great things to come. Everyone expects to be happy. We even say, “Merry Christmas” to each other. We have those incredible cute, beautiful Christmas stories that we read or movies that we watch. There is no violence there. They are all about LOVE!!! How amazing it is that those simple stories of love make us feel so good.

Do you want to become calm so you can create in your life things that you desire? Treat every day like Christmas.
How do you do that? Read again what I have written above. The answer is there.

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Creating Things That We Desire – Part 1

amanda — Fri, 09 Dec 2011 18:58:02 +0000

People always wonder what it is that they need to do to in order to create in their lives, the things that they want. You can learn all the possible techniques, dissect the issue in many ways, but at the end of the day all of that comes is one simple answer, we need to be calm. Calmness is the state of mind that will create the things that we desire.

In that fast moving world, we think that it is almost impossible to become calm. This cannot be further from the truth. Besides we don’t realize the incredible benefits of being calm. The calmer we are the faster we do things and the better results we achieve. People sometimes say, that they cannot be calm as they have deadlines to meet, they have no job or that their financial situation is deteriorating. This is like putting a carriage before the horse. The very important point is that for anyone to get a job, make their finances better, etc., they need to become calm first.

You see, by the law of creation (attraction) when we are stressed we create more of what we worry about. If we are stressed about our finances, we create more problems with them. We create what it is that we think/feel about. If we want to get a job, or make more money, we need to become calm about it first. Easier said than done?

It might seem like it…

To be continued…

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“Love Your Neighbor as You Love Yourself’

amanda — Sat, 19 Nov 2011 18:10:18 +0000

I am sure you have heard that verse from the Bible. Let’s look at the incredible wisdom of it. We want our relationships to be great, the perfect job, the abundance of clients and money. What does that verse have to do with anything? Absolutely everything!!!

Whatever it is that we want to achieve in our lives, we need to communicate with other people. They are the ones that are our life partners, family, bosses, clients, etc. How can we love our neighbor when we hate ourselves? We cannot. What is it that we project when we don’t like ourselves? We project misery to our partners, family, and insecurity to our present or future bosses, and clients.

What happens when we love ourselves? The more we love ourselves the more we love everyone and everything around us. We find ourselves being happier and that joy radiates from us to our partners, our family and making our relationships amazing. When we love ourselves we see how magnificent we are and that comes across as confidence. Suddenly, we find ourselves getting that perfect job, clientele is flowing to us and the money follows.

So, “Love your neighbor as YOU love YOURSELF” and have fun!!!!

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Patience

amanda — Sat, 12 Nov 2011 13:25:17 +0000

With the momentum of our phones going from 3G to 4G, internet and computers constantly increasing their speed, in this fast moving world, where everything is done with greater pace, it is expected from us to have things done “yesterday”. Following that trend we want things to happen for us immediately as well. We became a “microwave” society, where we have absolutely no patience for things taking time.

That expectation of things happening instantly applies to anything that we want in our lives. It is like in that saying, “God, please, give me patience and I want it right now!” We expect the same thing from our mind. But we are not a computer or a phone where we can exchange one CPU or a card for another, faster one. Our mind works in a very interesting way. Every time we want things to go faster, we slow the whole process of manifesting things in our lives that we desire. Actually, the more emphasis we put on the speed the longer it takes for anything to happen. It is like this incredible paradox that keeps us from achieving things fast when we are impatient and in a hurry for the desired thing to manifest in our lives. The more we get frustrated with the time it takes, the longer it takes, while in the meantime we are very likely creating things that we don’t want. OUCH!

So, what do we need to do to manifest things in our lives fast? We need to become patient. The calmer we are the faster things are going to appear in our lives. They say that “Patience is a virtue.” How true!

So, if you want to speed up the process, achieve anything fast in your life, you need to become patient first. When you become patient, really patient, you will be surprised how fast things are going to appear in your life.

Have fun and be patient!

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Economy? – Part 2

amanda — Sat, 29 Oct 2011 16:52:39 +0000

What the mentioned above people did to change their situations so fast?

First, we need to use our imagination. If we can see it in our mind we can have it. The next thing is calmness. Calmness is the key. We need to become calm. When we are calm we create in our lives things that we want. How do we go about being calm? There are many methods that you can use to become calm, like meditating, listening to music you like, hugging your pet or your child, having in your mind scenery that makes you feel peaceful. But the most powerful from all of those tools is something that has a lasting effect of being calm and that is love. Loving yourself. When you love yourself, you feel worthy of that job, of the prosperity in your business and it happens! When we love we cannot fear or worry, be angry or frustrated at the same time. We just feel love. We feel calm. It is that simple and that powerful!

So, become the most loving and caring person on this planet to…YOURSELF!

First, we need to realize that we have a choice. We have a choice to listen to the news about the economy or create our own success story.

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Economy? – Part 1

amanda — Sat, 22 Oct 2011 15:59:46 +0000

How the economy is for us, all depends on how we think. It is not what they say on TV, radio or papers, it is what WE think it is. One of my clients, quit the job she hated and in three weeks she got the job of her dreams. There were many people applying for that position, and she went for five different levels of interviews. She got the job! A Realtor, who was mostly selling properties of value around $100,000, sold 1.5 million of real estate in a week, selling properties $300,000 – 400,000 in value. A salesman who had a two week notice as he was the last in sales in his office, became number one in sales in two weeks. A lady who’s business could barely support her, now has 7 employees and a waiting list of clients. A young man who wanted a career in a company of his choice, was excited that he initially got a part time job in that company, but then he realized that he could have a full time job. He put that idea in his mind and he was offered a full time position before he went on his first day to work. I can give you many more stories like those, where people created their own economy.

What made the difference in those people’s lives? They all took their thinking to a completely new level.

The first thing we need to understand is that we create everything in our lives. It is not the economy, not employers…etc. It is always US. What do I mean by us? Our thinking. Before the world can see us in the way we desire, we need to see ourselves in that way first. If we want to get that perfect job, we need to see ourselves being worthy of that position. If we want our business to prosper, we need to see ourselves successful first.

But how do we change our thinking? How do we go about believing that we can? What did those mentioned above people to change their situations so fast?

To be continued…

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The Building Block –Part 2

amanda — Sat, 15 Oct 2011 17:40:26 +0000

How do we go about loving ourselves?

Who is the person we talk to the most during our days? Us. We talk to ourselves all the time. What is it that you are telling yourself about? Are they nice things? Are they things that build you up? On top of all the wonderful things that you are going to tell yourself to build you up, you need to say to yourself that you love yourself. Say, “I love you…(your name)”. Repeat this many times during the day. If you do that diligently you will be surprised how things are going to change in your life. How your entire life will start to improve. The more you will love yourself the better your life is going to become.

So, love yourself more, then you love yourself more, and after that…keep going.

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