Amanda Devine
Reflection In the Mirror
September 7, 2008 on 2:06 am | In Our Thinking | 2 CommentsWe very often blame everything and everyone around us for the things that happen to us. We say I would be very successful in my business if the economy wasn’t bad. I would have great relationships if my spouse/partner changed his/her behavior, I would have lots of fun time if I had great friends, etc. Let me explain something to you.
Imagine you are looking in a mirror. What do you see? You see your reflection. Let’s say you are wearing a white top. Can you change the reflection in the mirror? I mean change the actual white color of your top into blue in the reflection in the mirror? No, it is impossible to change the actual reflection. The only way you can change the reflection is to change the object that is reflected. If you want to change the color of your top in your reflection you have to change the top you have on, to a blue one, to see your reflection with the blue top. You see your whole life, in every area, money, relationships, health, friendships, spiritual life ( not necessary religious ) is a reflection of what you are thinking. We are trying to change people, change circumstances and that is a futile task. It is like changing a reflection in a mirror. Impossible task! The only way you can change your life (the reflection) is changing your thoughts ( the object that is reflected). When you change your thoughts you will find that the reflection is going to change. Your life will change. The business that wasn’t doing well suddenly starts picking up, the relationship that was on the rocks becomes a dream come true. Your family becomes more loving, friends are different and the list goes on. And one day you look at the mirror and you gasp at the reflection. It will be just awesome. And you will know that all it took was to change how you think.
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Amanda Devine
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Often we allow ourselves to be upset by small things we should despise and forget. We lose many irreplaceable hours brooding over grievances that, in a year’s time, will be forgotten by us and by everybody. No, let us devote our life to worthwhile actions and feelings, to great thoughts, real affections and enduring undertakings.”
Andre Maurois, 1885-1967, Author
Your Powerful Inner Self
P.S.
Concentrate on great things. Let go of the small unimportant ones.
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How Do I Change My Thinking? …continuation
August 10, 2008 on 12:21 am | In Our Thinking | 3 CommentsYou have learned in the last blog, that the first thing you need to do to change your thinking is to start talking to yourself the way you really deserve.
The second thing is to change what it is that you are thinking about. Your world is a mirror reflection of what you think. You can never change the reflection in the mirror without changing the object that is reflected in it first. In this case the reflection in the mirror is your life, the people in it and how they react to you, and treat you. The object we are talking about here that is reflected in the mirror, is you. The only way to change anything in your life is to change yourself. What it is that you are thinking about most of the day? Are you worrying, are you scared that bad things can happen to you? Are you afraid of sickness, or that you won’t be able to get that job, or to pay those bills, or to get that promotion, or to make that sale? If that is so, then realize, that everything you think about is what you are getting in your life. You get everything you worry about, everything you are scared of or afraid of. So, what it is that you want in your life? If you want something different than think about what you want. Concentrate on the great things you want. Use the incredible potential you have to create your life the way you want. You can do it! You are born to do it. If you have any doubts about that, email me amanda@totallyuniqueideas.com
Remember, abundance is your birth right. Claim your right!
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Amanda Devine
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What I would like you do today, is to stand in front of your bathroom mirror and look at yourself. See, how beautiful, special, brilliant, amazing, unique and a fantastic unlimited being you are.
Your Powerful Inner Self
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This is the only way you should see yourself. Why? Because that is the truth about you.
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How Do I Change My Thinking?
August 3, 2008 on 3:02 am | In Our Thinking | 2 CommentsYou set your goals and now you realize that in order to achieve them you need to change your thinking. How do you do that?
Who is the person we talk to all day long? It is us. We talk to ourselves all the time. What is that you tell yourself? Do you tell yourself, that you can not achieve your goal, that you set it too high and it is unrealistic? Do you get mad at yourself when you make a mistake, or lost an opportunity, or simply that you are not smart enough to achieve what you want? Do you tell yourself, that you are too fat, too ugly, too….etc, etc.? If this is what you are telling yourself everyday, THAT IS WHO YOU ARE!
The point here is that all of the above are LIES! You are lying to yourself. The truth is you are amazing, brilliant, intelligent, handsome, pretty, special and unique. You are capable of achieving anything in life, but for you in order to achieve it you need to see yourself for what you really are, the amazing human being!
First thing you need to tell yourself the truth. You need to get up every morning and tell yourself while you looking at your reflection in the mirror how special you are. Tell yourself how smart, how brilliant, how handsome, beautiful and amazing….person you are. Talk to yourself like that all day, build yourself up instead of putting yourself down. See the beauty and brilliance in you. And pat yourself on the back every time you do a great job. Remember what people see in you and what they think about you is the reflection of what you are talking to yourself about all day long. So, the next time you want to make a comment about yourself to yourself, think what it is that you want others to think about you.
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Amanda Devine
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Your present situation in your life is a mirror reflection of your thinking.
Your Powerful Inner Self
P.S.
If you want to change the reflection in the mirror, you need to change what it is that you think about. This is the only way.
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Thoughts and Actions
July 26, 2008 on 2:59 am | In Our Thinking | 2 CommentsThoughts and Actions.
Have you ever heard about the definition of insanity? Most of the sales people have.
The definition of insanity, is doing the same things over and over again and expecting different results. How it is really explained to us, and how it was explained to me; that if we take the same actions and we expect different results, that is the definition of insanity. We know that there is truth to it but it really goes much, much deeper than that. If you change actions, for example you make more sales appointments you will get more sales and better results this way. Yes, you will change your results, but only a little. You will never achieve your dream by doing that. The real meaning of the definition of insanity is thinking the same way and expecting different results. It is never going to happen!!! Our actions are results of what we think and they produce results. So if we are thinking the same way, we will act the same way and we will have the same results we always had. Only when we change our thinking, we will change our results. When you think in a different way, you will act in a different way and you will achieve your dream. Where you are at this moment is the result of what you have been thinking till now. And that is great news, because they are your thoughts and you can change them any time!
Always remember, you have absolute power to transform your life. What you need to do is to transform your thinking.
Amanda Devine
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Do you know that you have the same potential as Thomas Edison, Henry Ford and Albert Einstein?
Your Powerful Inner Self
P.S.
Do you know what is the difference between you and them?
They knew that they had the potential, you don’t know it YET.
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How To Convince Someone That You Are Special?
July 13, 2008 on 11:50 pm | In Our Thinking | 1 CommentAfter one of my seminars I was asked a great question;
“How can I convince the judges that I am the winner of the competition?”
This is what I answered:
You can not convince the judges that you are the winner. The only person you need to convince is yourself. If you feel and believe in the depth of your heart that you are the winner, then you are. You don’t have to convince anyone. When you believe that you are the winner, you think like a winner, you act as a winner, you talk as a winner. Your entire demeanor says loud and clearly; I am a winner and it shows to everyone that is around you, including judges.
That applies to all areas of your life. Before you want to convince someone that you are the best for that job, the best choice for a partner, the best business person in your category, the best parent, the best student, friend…etc.; first you have to convince yourself that you are that person. When you are that person, you don’t need to convince anyone. They will know it.
You are a very special person. All you need to do is to see that for yourself….deep in your heart…than everyone will notice it as well.
Amanda Devine
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“Behold the turtle: He only makes progress when he sticks his neck out.”
James Bryant Conant, 1893-1978, Educator and Diplomat
Your Powerful Inner Self
P.S.
Do you know the saying, “Better safe than sorry”? If you are always safe you are going to be sorry.
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Who Is In The Driver’s Seat of Your Life?
July 6, 2008 on 1:30 am | In Our Thinking | No CommentsThere are many differences between successful people and unsuccessful people. One thing I wanted to concentrate on today is that successful people are in the driver’s seat of their life. They are the ones that make the decisions where to go and how to go about it. They are the ones who are in charge of their fate. They make their fate.
On the other hand the unsuccessful people are in the passenger’s seat. They are ones who feel that everyone is pulling their strings. They feel like they are the little people in the big world and they have no control over anything, or hardly anything. They often feel helpless, underpaid and not appreciated. If it happens that you are that person, think about this. Who is your driver and where are you going? What will happen when your driver decides to drive off the cliff? If this was the case, remember you are in the passenger’s seat and you are going with him or her!
You are such a powerful being. You have such incredible potential. You and only YOU should be in the driver’s seat of your life. All you need to do, is to take that seat, and claim it as YOURS for the rest of your life!
Amanda Devine
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Do you know that 20% of people earn 80% of all the money?
This means that the 80% of people have to split the remaining 20% of the money.
Your Powerful Inner Self
P.S.
I don’t think we should have to split that 20%. I don’t like that idea at all. Let’s sink our teeth in the 80%. Let’s go for the big piece of the pie!
And who was the one that said that size does not matter?
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“If God wanted us to fly, He would give us wings”
April 12, 2008 on 10:31 pm | In Our Thinking | 1 CommentI have just received a great comment from a person who finds my posts very interesting and something that “can not be find anywhere else.” Thank you for your comment. Very much appreciated. The same person also wrote that he is not sure that everything I write is real. I will assure you it is. I live it every day and my clients live it too. This post is dedicated to that wonderful person who wrote me that comment and all the magnificent people that visit my site and read my blogs.
In 19th Century or at the turn of the 20th century if you would say that we can build huge machines, that will take us to the other part of the globe and to the moon, would those people believe you? Would they agree with you if you said that we have the potential to build such machines? If you told the same people that in 21st century people will talk to little boxes and someone will hear them on another side of the globe? Will they believe if you said that people will take pictures with cameras without a film in them and then plug those cameras into a box called a computer and…. Now you have the 19th Century people stopping you and shaking their heads in disbelief. You probably will hear laughter. You just made their heads spin. They tried to comprehend something they can not. It is too magical for them. You stepped on their beliefs. They know it is impossible! They just know it. How do they know that it is Impossible? Because, they never opened their minds to the possibilities of it. But some people, the mavericks, they looked at the impossible and made it a reality.
The same applies to our unlimited potential. Unlimited? It does not agree with what we know. We know it is impossible. How do we know it is impossible? Because we don’t open our minds to the possibility that it is. It is not our fault. We were conditioned that way.
We are in a new age now. An age of quantum physics. Quantum physics proves over and over that we have unlimited potential. The only thing that keeps us from using that potential is ignorance. We simply do not know that we have it. Before we can use something we have to know first that we have it. My clients and I use that potential every single day and we create our lives the way we want. You can do it too.
I am so glad that a huge number of people have come to my blog and read my posts. That number tripled in the last 4 months and this month will be by itself better than the last four months together. I am so glad that people leave more comments. I welcome all the comments. If you want anything for me to write about, please just ask. I will keep writing my posts as I want to touch as many people as possible. I want you all to realize the incredible potential you have. You are very special, you are a genius beyond description, you are all brilliant people. All you need is to know and understand is how to use that magnificent power you possess.
Amanda Devine
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Our mind is like a big field. We can plant good seeds there or we can plant bad seeds. Or we can just let it be overgrown with weeds.
Your Powerful Inner Self
P.S.
Whatever you plant you will harvest in your life. If you don’t plant anything and let it go wild it will produce beautiful, big, juicy weeds.
So, choose wisely and plant something good in there. If I may have a suggestion here…money tree will be a good start…
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Your Potential
April 5, 2008 on 9:09 pm | In Our Thinking | 2 CommentsDo you know that you have the same potential as Albert Einstein, Henry Ford and Thomas Edison?
Yes, you do.
Do you know what the difference between you and them?
The only difference between you and them is that they knew that they had potential. You don’t know it, YET.
Do you know that Thomas Edison had only 3 months of schooling? And yet he created the most wonderful things that make our life easier. If it was not for Thomas Edison, you would not be able to read this. Henry Ford surrounded himself with highly educated people that knew everything he needed to create his automobile. And Albert Einstein created physical theories, so incredible that we still try to wrap our minds around them. They had great imagination and they believed that if they can imagine it they can create it. And they did. You have imagination too. It is a perfect imagination. You were born with a perfect imagination. Take a little child and give that child a box or something else that is simple and this child will play for a long time, using his or her imagination. Then we go to school and we hear, “Amanda, stop day dreaming! Pay attention!” Then we go to work and we can be told, like I was “You are here to work not to think.” This is how our boundaries are put on our imagination. You, see for you to achieve anything you have to use your imagination. You can achieve anything you want in life. You are only limited by your imagination.
So, go and sit in your favorite place, relax, and start dreaming. Ask yourself: “What is that I really want in life?’ Then go for it, like Albert Einstein, Henry Ford and Thomas Edison did.
Amanda Devine
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“Faith is the ability to see the invisible – to believe in the incredible. That is what enables you to receive what the masses think is impossible.”
Clarence Smithison
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P.S.
You have to decide what you want to have in life:
1. Do you want to have what you see now?
2. Or do you want to have the incredible? (Your dream)
Choose wisely as you can have either of them.
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The Potential of Our Mind
March 16, 2008 on 8:56 pm | In Our Thinking | 3 Comments“We bemoan the loss of our forests, we worry over our dwindling resources of coal and oil. We decry the waste in our factories. But the greatest waste of all, we pay no attention to – the waste of our own potential mind power.”
Robert Collier – Author “The Secret of Ages” 1948
How true is that thought written by Robert Collier! We are born with that incredible potential. We can do anything in life and yet through our conditioning we are taught that we can not do things. We are limited by the thoughts that are deeply embedded in us by our families, friends and people we meet in life. We can not blame our parents for the conditioning we received. They received the same conditioning from their parents and they wanted the best for us, but you can not give what you don’t have. So, our parents could not give us the great knowledge about our potential as they did not have it themselves.
Here, you may ask, what potential do I have?
My answer to you will be that you have such an incredible potential that you can not even comprehend it with your mind. You are brilliant, you have an incredible talent. You can be, do or have anything you seriously want. All you need is to realize that you are that incredible, special person. You see, they have not taught us at school that we have that potential. They have not taught us at school how to make goals and how to achieve them, how to make money. They have not taught us at school how to make decisions, how to think. They gave us at school a great knowledge of things, but none or very little knowledge of life. Many people are lost, searching for directions in life, not being able to make right decisions, and sometimes even to make any decision. They often feel like someone is pulling their strings. Like everything in their lives is out of their control.
I have news for you. No one is pulling your strings. You are pulling your own strings. It might seem to you that other people are controlling your life, but only because you let them do it. You have that unlimited potential and you are using it all the time. You are either using it to sabotage yourself or you are using it to advance in your life. Use it to make your life better. Don’t waste it. Life is too precious to be unhappy, especially when you have everything you need to live a life of your dreams.
Amanda Devine
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“If you think your thoughts are powerful, they are.”
Thomas Troward, Author 1847-1916
Your Powerful Inner Self
P.S.
You are more powerful than you can ever imagine. Use your power wisely, create your life the way you want.
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What is Stress?
February 23, 2008 on 9:02 pm | In Our Thinking | 2 CommentsStress is a result of ignorance. People get stressed because they do not realize that they have the power to control their lives. We are conditioned to believe that we are the little people in a huge world and everything that happens to us is out of our control. How many times have we heard people saying, “Everyone is pulling my strings.”
The truth is just the opposite. We can be in a total control of our lives. We are the ones that pull our own strings. We are the ones that have the power to change anything we want in our lives. The only catch here is that we need to have the knowledge that we can change our lives, and then we have to believe that we can, and finally expect that what we want it is going to happen.
When we understand the potential we have and I mean really understand it, we will never get stressed.
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Amanda Devine
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“We either move forward and grow or step back to safety.”
Abraham Maslow, 1908 – 1970 American Psychologist
Your Powerful Inner Self
P.S.
You have only two choices in life:
1. You take on a challenge and you grow and become better, and have a better life.
2. When faced with a challenge you move back to your comfort zone. You might feel good in your comfort zone. You might not feel happy, but feel safe. You might not like your job, but you stay where you are, because you know it, it is your comfort zone. A new job you don’t know might be scary. You might have too much responsibility.
Anything new is somewhat frightening or uncomfortable. But remember with the new, besides the fear of the unknown, comes excitement and a better life. So, put on your adventurer’s hat and go for the new, the exciting, the better, and discover the life that you thought never existed.
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