Amanda Devine

What is the Best Way to Help Others?

Many people ask themselves what is the best way I can help others?
The best way to help others is to help yourself first.
When you change and become the best person you can be, when you are happy you will speak in a different way, act in a different way. That creates a ripple effect. Your new YOU will influence everyone around you. You don’t even have to wait until you are the person you want to be. Things will be changing as soon you will start growing.
As you are becoming a better, happier, calmer person, you will think differently, act differently and treat everyone else in a different way. Your new way will change other people thinking, their actions and they will affect other people in a positive way, even the ones you don’t know.
In order to achieve that, you have to put yourself first. You might say, that is being selfish or being conceited. This is not what I am talking about. Think for a moment. What do you have to offer to people when you are unhappy, miserable, angry, feeling guilt or resentment, hating yourself, feeling lost? When you have directions, do what you love, and love yourself, you are growing into a happy, calm, serene person. Your stamina, your new outlook on life you are developing as you change, will enhance the way you will see your surroundings and people. Being happy, you will help people become happier. Being serene, you will help people become calm. You will be an example. People will admire you and many will follow your path. You will become more caring and giving than you could ever imagine. You will have to offer something that is priceless to every single person, peace, serenity and happiness. You will become your child’s hero, your family’s haven, your friends’ idol.
So, start with yourself. Make yourself happy first. Ask yourself the most important question:
What is that I really want and what will make me happy?
Finding the answer is a good start. Then act on it.
 

Amanda Devine
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